I was SADISTICALLY TORTURED BY MY MOTHER. The suffering I went through was unimaginable. The narrative we've been accepting is she loves me, she's concerned about me, the reason she brings me to doctors is to help me. So many powerful people just accepted this narrative, didn't investigate, she got them to sign off on her lies. The truth is she's wearing a mask, behind it she's really a sadistic monster who tortured me my entire life, deprived me of friendships, girlfriends. She keeps me a dependent adult child intentionally.
By controlling my narrative and telling doctors I'm not lucid, I'm medicated beyond belief. Yes, I do have Schizoaffective disorder, but that was intentionally inflicted. My mother gaslights me, makes me question my sanity. Even by saying this, I'm afraid my psychopharmacologist will increase my meds, or worse than that, hospitalize me.
I suspect somebody powerful is my TRUE biological father. They harmed me to harm him, I was just a pawn in their sick game. But don't assume or daydream anything. The facts are she tortured me.
My mother built me an apartment-like area in 2019. Since July 2019, my mother has been leaving me alone in my apartment to metaphorically die. It's her way of trying to rewrite history. She intentionally kept me dependent, shamed me when it came to women, held me as her prisoner, inflicted so much fear and torture that I was in a nonstop state of panic.
I feel ready to explode. Like I'm coming unglued and it ruins my credibility.
I suffer from depersonalization. Everywhere I go I think people view me in a critical way, the neighbors think I'm a mentally ill freak, I don't relate to anyone or anything. I'm a comatose zombie.
I'm so hungry for socialization that my brain feels raw, on fire, like it's ready to explode. I want to EAT. But I've never developed my social skills. I had no friends growing up. I'm afraid this is going to lead to brain cancer. Even this hypochondria is a "SADISTIC MONSTER" making me feel anxious. Think about it, if I have cancer, my life will be over, no friends forever.
I feel like an omega, ashamed of who I am, completely worthless. My mom and dad get sadistic pleasure from my suffering, it turns them on.
Right now, everything is ok in a way, I'm not homeless. My mom is providing me with food, water, shelter. She controls my money, medical forms, and I'm living as a disabled adult child, blinding myself to the grim reality that when she gets older and dies, if I don't get independent, I'll be "up shit creek without a paddle."
So many people throughout the years swept the dirt under the rug, expecting me to never amount to much, gave me lip service because it was too difficult an issue to tackle.
I thought my ticket to freedom was social media posts, loud S.O.S.'s, crying out for somebody to liberate me from this HELL. It was going into a void.
I suffered so much, want to escape this prison, and experience true love, but I feel unlovable.
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Dr. Natural replied with:
"Andrew
Not for the first time, the great pain you are in comes through in your email. We are all hoping that as more and more people get vaccinated possibilities for socializing will open up, and you can continue moving forward in your life. As you know, I believe that the main thing blocking your independence is the way your mind works. Who would want to go out into the real world thinking that someone was waiting to intentionally contaminate them and kill them? How many times have you feared you have been infected or contaminated? Hundreds of times. How many times have you been wrong about this? Hundreds of times. It is your own mind that tortures you with fears of sadistic contaminators in your neighborhood.
Two questions for you to think about before our sessions tomorrow. First, consider two scenarios, Version 1 and Version 2. In version 1, the bullies who hounded you in school took sadistic pleasure in making you suffer (that's what bullies do), which eventually led to decreased confidence in socializing, which affected your confidence with people in general, and women in particular. In version 2 your mother has dedicated her life to torturing you because she gets sadistic sexual pleasure from seeing you suffer (she is sexually gratified rather than you). In version 2 she has orchestrated a very elaborate charade in which what appears to reflect love and her maternal devotion to you is actually a giant scam. In version 2 she appears loving to cover the opposite - that she isn't loving. She provides food, clothing, your own apartment (which allows you to be intimate with women) and is making provisions in her estate for you in the event of her death, where is version 2 she is doing all these seeming loving things to cover that fact that she lives to torture you.
We know that you see sadists everywhere in your neighborhood - at Starbucks, for example. So, here is my question for tomorrow. HOW DO YOU TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TRUELY LOVING BEHAVIOR and SEEMINGLY LOVING BEHAVIOR THAT IS MEANT TO HIDE SADISM? You believe that I have been tricked by your mother's seemingly loving behavior, which yes, to me, does seem to show great concern for you. But you feel you know different. The fact that you suffer a great deal, which is unquestionably true, cannot be taken as proof of your mother's sadistic intent, because that is part of version 1 - you suffered from the bullies, you fell ill, you mother responded supportively to the suffering she saw you enduring. You are currently terrified by your persistent feeling of helplessness from which you imagine an eventual rescue by a celebrity.
In short, you seem to believe you can tell the difference between REAL LOVE and FAKE LOVE. How do you tell the difference?"